Saturday, June 25, 2011

My 2 friends hate each other?

I have 2 friends who can't stand each other. There's a year end trip coming up and one won't go if the others there. I really don't want to be there with only one of them. I like them both equally. Please help

Do you think this is weird?

I'm 13 and a girl. My mum isn't home much. I see her maybe 3 times a week. When I do see her we don't talk just hello, goodbye. My older brother who's 22 is practacly raising me. The other day I had just got home from a friends house. I went upstairs to tell my brother that I was home. I knocked on his door but he didn't answer. I opened the door just to make sure he wasn't there. He was in his bed with his girlfriend naked. I was shocked and he saw me just standing there not knowing what to do. As soon as I could I turned and ran out. Things were weird when I was helping him with dinner that night. The next day he came up and started talking about "the talk" and about puberty. I already knew about puberty but the stuff in the talk I didn't because at school I don't do Ed because I do extended maths. My friend was saying in a random conversation that she never would talk about those things with her dad or a male. I told her about talking to my brother very open about everything. She said that it was very weird and strange. It it strange and weird? Also when I get my period how do I tell him about it because I will need stuff?

GUYS: why is he acting like this?

He sounds like he is at a point of the relationship that "hit its peek" he my be "getting over you" so to speak, and yes, most of the time its because of another girl. but i don't know him, and you need to just confront him, if you want the relationship to "go on" then you SHOULD tell him how YOU FEEL. Try phone call cus txt you cant get full emotion in ot. you need to hear his voice, and he needs to hear yours!

Girls: What might u do if your partner...?

cute idea, but i'd be annoyed i now was stuck caring for a bunny or kitty. i wouldn't do this unless she explicitly told you she wants and intends to get a pet.

Have an Astrologer ever told you that you would have trouble getting pregnant?

I am just obsessing over this the last 3 years. I am usually skeptic of certain things but I have been trying to get pregnant for 10 years. So I figured in the past maybe I just wasn't ready, timing wasn't right or wrong person. But a few boyfriends and not even a oopsie. So now that I am married and 28 years old I got a fertilty reading on children and was told I had a barren sign. I have been told by 2 astrologers that its hogwash, while the other 3 suggest I would have trouble conceiving. I just started actively trying and I am scared out of my wits over this. I don't know guys but I kinda believe that its true based on my current situation. I haven't been properly diagnosis with anything but I do believe that I have a case of PCOS. So I want to ask have anyone ever been told this. I am confused ;( Just for reference by dob is May 3 1983 born @ 9;01 pm in Detroit Mi. I was also told if I do have children they would bring me grief. Please share your thoughts, Nothing silly and not serious I am being serious guys! Thank you

Why am i not sad after dumping my boyfriend?

i suppose if you wasnt getting back as much from this as your last relationship your going to feel relief quicker and it sounds like you are obviously better for it .

How do I get help with my mom?

I am 15 years old and my mom doesn't like me. Right now she pawned every video game and DVD that i have and there about to get taken by the pawn shop. She doesn't care because shes never liked video games or DVDs, (shes a social person) and the thought of losing them doesn't even faze her. She takes advantage of me not being able to do anything by expecting me to clean everything. I have two siblings and they hardly have to do anything at all. My sister is 14 and all she can do is text, (which my mom has no problem with at all but if I play video games for half an hour she says that's all i think about) and my brother is insane, so he cant do anything. And to top that off shes always uming that because im male i do all this stuff, like all i think about is and that im going to grow up and become a horrible person. None of that is true and it is pissing me off that she is being ist. She wont even let me be on the computer for over 30 minutes because she always wants me to do stuff. Even more my sister has more privileges than me even though im well more behaved, like she can have all this food just for herself and text all day and not get in trouble but if i don't listen to my mom im all of a sudden grounded for a week. My mother wont even have a conversation with me at all and when i say something she just says, "Im done" and leaves the room and treats me like i have no feelings even though im very sensitive. She even goes as far as treating me like every thing i do is a disappointment I cant stand her anymore and i need some help with her. I don't want to talk to CPS because i don't want to be taken away. I just want her to actually listen to me and to stop treating me like dirt.

What was the old school song with american cities being said and stand up after them?

There was a song back in the mid 2000's which ended with american cities being called out then stand up being said at the end. For example.. "New Orleans stand up.. Detroit stand up" and I'm reaaaally tryna figure out which song it was. I think it was done by a male and a female RnB singer but my memory evades me. HELP!

Toungue piercing????? :)?

A tongue piercing can cost between 20 and 40 dollars depending on the shop. Clear ones are a lot less noticeable but not invisible and you have to wait till you can take out the giant and very noticeable bar that they'll put in. Which can be from a couple weeks to a month or longer depending on the person. The vibrating ones are neat but bulky and in my personal opinion are a waste of money in the end. It doesn't really hurt at all but that also depends on the individual. It may bring a tear to your eye just like as if you got hit in the nose. Also when you get it refrain from chewing on it at all because you will develop a habit and mess up your teeth if metal or waste jewelry if plastic. hope I helped.

Should I say yes to my best friend?

Well, my best friend John has been telling me his problems (seriously I started crying), and I had to go so i said ily or chat, but not anything more than friends, but now he asked me if he can go out with me... What should I say? I don't know if i like him like that or not... HELP!

Why is it so hard for some people to graps the fact that Sally Hemings was Presidents Jeffersons concubine?

He freed her family and her fa,ily only, Their children and her brother but she wasnt free until he died, i think he wanted her to stay with him. SHe reccived an education in France niot to mention she was practically white with 1/4 black but they had the 1 drop rule. It was said she looked exaclty like his ex wife, she if theyre were rumors of their relationship what makes people think that they werent together. Im not saying that they were together in paris because its been "so called" proven that there relationship didnt start until they got back to monticillo years later. And DNA test PROVES that he fathered at least one of her sons Eston Hemings. But people are still in denial saying that we would need to dig up jerffersons grave to actually prove i lolo

Am i too young???? best answer 10 pts!! :)?

ok so i work at this restuarant and i work counter and host. im 16 btw i turn 17 in nov and 18 next year. so anyway i work with this guy hes 22. he's a waiter. at first i didnt find him attractive but then i started to talking to him and hes so chill. hes very playful but really nice and yeah very good looking! :D any way he only worked 1 shift a week because he worked the rest of his shifts at the other chain. so the last time i worked with him was like a month ago and that was his last shift at the place i worked at because his scheduale had been filled up at the other place. so that last day i worked with him i was really exited to see him! lol of course we both were just messing around. he slapped my with the menus ..;) lol but when i was getting ready to leave i went up to him to say bye and iwas like. oh you're leaving ..and you're not coming back for a while :( and he was stading there and i wanted to go up to him and hug him goodbye but i thought that that might of been a lil too much so i didnt i just said that we'll miss him and that ill see him l8r. so after that i went home ...:/ sad.but then a couple days later i friended him on FB and i started a poke war but i dont go on FB that often so i looked on a few days ago and he wrote on my wall ( this is exiting because im a 16 year old girl...duh) haha and he asked how it was going at the place i work at now and i was like its ok how are you. were all missing you over here :/ you should come and visit ( no exclamation points or anything haha just like you c it) and and hes like maybe i will,someday... :p and i was like yeah looking foward to it... :P and hows ur place ( the resturant he works at-same chain-) and now im waiting. lol i know this means nothing but he took the time to write something and he wrote it 1st! and i hadnt poked him in like a week...so yeah . but he just recently got into a relationship ( she looks pretty not gonna lie ..im not a hater) so what do you think? idk what it is but i feel like i need a direction to go in2 ya know? helppp ily! ♥

If you had to make a hockey team....?

This is hard! Ok here goes nothing: Caps- Jason Arnott, he has this amazing ability TO ACTUALLY MAKE SEMIN PLAY! Nah, I'm not a disgruntled Caps fan >:(; Do I really have to pick for the Flyers? Fine.- The big, ugly one, oh wait they're all big and ugly! Mike Richards; Bruins- Zdeno Chara; Grrr, the one that doesn't whine or dive. Marc-Andre Fleury (he's tolerable); I like the one who we knocked out of the game-Gagne, atleast he didn't score on us; Canadiens- How about P.K. Subban, why not?; Sabres- Gotta go with the loverly Ryan Miller; Rangers- Sean Avery of course ;) jk! Ryan Callahan, in honor of him not being able to play against us because of his broken leg; Canuckleheads (I really don't mean that in a rude or demeaning way)-ermmm, the Sedins. They're a package, like Dolce & Gabbana. You can't have one without the other!;Sharks- Thornton, personal reasons ;) ;Wings- Yzerman, you din't say current!; Ducklings(again I'm not bashing)- i don't know anyone on the ducks *smh*, *googling* Saku Koivu; Predators- Mike Fisher; Coyotes-Shane Doan; Kings-Anze Kopitar; Blackhawks- toews, why the h*ll not?

How to quit hating on this person?

I swear it killing me ! this dude has the light skin real hazel eyes and everything ! i only have the light bskin and looks really but he has absolutely everything and kills me seeing all MY friends fall in love with this dude. me and him moved here to georgia bout the same tome me from new york and him from detroit but since hes stolen every girl i wanted and it jus pisses me off idk why. even when i see his page on facebook and he gets like 30 likes for his ish fro my friends too and ill only get like 2. HELP ME

My boyfriend's wife is hling us. She just found out.?

She keeps phoning and emailing trying to talk to him. She even phoned my answering machine once! She left me a message saying she had with him when he visited her and the kids last month, but I know he didn't. He moved to Canada two years ago, and he's only seen her a few times since then. Someone told her about us. She keeps emailing and saying that she must talk to him. I can't stand it - she wants to ask him why he lied to her and didn't tell her about me. It's harrment, stalking, isn't it? I'm so scared she might come round to our house, or phone me again. They've got five kids together, and he doesn't pay any money to her but he does pay a mortgage on a house. He was trying to sell it - but then she moved back in and the realtor told her she had a right to stay. What can we do to stop his wife getting in the way? They are still married, but I know he's filed divorce. He hasn't told her he filed so she'll just get the papers soon. Why should he support her now?

Whats goin on with my gf??</3?

kay so me and kali met in forth grade and didnt see eachotther for years till one random october nite the night my grandma died and shortly after her gpa died fate you mite call it i doo!! any who we go out now since last thursday like we have been talkin for months text all the time tell eachotther love you but she still seems shy around me i kinda still am like we talk alot we kiss5 or 6 times a day but not makeout im not gonna lie im ready to get laid lol like she would send menaked pics sometimes with out askin but when where togother so i need to know how to make her more comfortable around me 1 , 2 how to get this girl turned on in real life and 3 how to make this girl fall head over heals for me and never want anyone else. like when i go to her house where alone when i get there it always takes her like 30 seconds to answer the door any ideas what that mite be?? we kiss hug sit down watch tv talk laugh and smile alot she always is like messin with stuff with her hands like phone remote pets ect?? soo plzz help me out here i RLY and TURELY love this girl and have for a wile we said ily shortly after we met again makey 1 and a half weeks but any and all advise will e greatly appreacated plzz you girls out there tell me what to doo??:/ and i dont need some bullshit answer i need somthing that is gonna help not smart remarks thanks

Cop took license for running a stop sign?

My friend just recently moved to Chicago which I'm sort of familiar with the Windy City traveling there a lot from Detroit but he told me that he just accidentally ran a stop sign and a cop pulled him over and took his license and told him he'll get it back when he "posts bond"...is that normal? I asked my dad who was in criminal justice and he said he's never heard of it for running a stop sign with a spotless record...

How do i know if he really does love me?

K, I don't know how old you are...but I can tell that you're still young, given the fact that you're still in school (guessing- high school?). He doesn't love you, you don't love him. it's just a strong crush, if that. Sorry to be so blunt, but it bothers me when people throw around the 'L' word so easily. Try not to say it so quickly when you begin a relationship, it means more when it is actually for real.

I have an idea, what do you think?

Since liberals want universal health care, lets test it in NYC and a few other ultra left toilets like Detroit, Chicago and East St Louis. If after 4 years it is proven to save money and work 100% I will not fight taking it nation wide, but no waivers for anyone. Either we all get it or kill it.

If i die before i wake, i pray the lord my soul to take, but please dont cry, just know that ily?

Apparently the rapture was a fail. It was supposed to happen at 6pm christmas island time, and its 7pm there.

My bf has stopped saying he loves me, and rarely talks to me anymore. Help!?

Talk to him, and make sure he listens to you whether he's 'in the mood' or not, and tell him you're not stupid, you can tell something's wrong.

What's wrong with my ?

During a big blizzard I had to help shovel our driveway. I really hurt my and it felt like I just pulled a muscle. I rested and gently stretched but now, months later, it hasn't gotten better, and may have even gotten worse. I have cheerleading and tumbling starting next week and I'm really worried about it. How am I supposed to learn to flip when sometimes I can barely sit or stand? Please help.

What's a good middle name for Katherine?

My character's name in Katherine ____ Price. I don't know what her middle name should be. I thought about Marie, but it seems to common. Katherine has long black, slightly wavy hair, and bright blue eyes. She's shy towards people she doesn't know and hates crowds. But she still will stand up for people and what she believes in.

Girls! tight jeans in summer...?

Okay, so I love preppy clothing and stuff haha, but I was just wondering how many of you girls actually wore like low rise jeans in the summer? I can stand the tightness and stuff in the winter cause I like how they show off curves, but in the summer, sometimes, the tightnessss is just too hot and I feel really confined. Also, I sometimes wear uggs in the summer, but only when I can stand it. What are your opinions on wearing low rise jeans in the summer? Too tight? too hot?

Does this boy actually like me? help!!?

so, what happend is that i have mutual friends on facebook with him (were 16) and we didnt know how were friends on fb and he just randomly chatted me and he was like ily i thought it was weird and i was just like ehh illll play around but whatever then i told him to call me (dont ask) & that night we ended up talking on the phone for 7 hours till 7 am then the next day we ttxed a lot and blaah and ever since we've been talking on the phone for more then 2 hours. he says he likes me and soo many cute things like youre perfect i hate guys that are doughes to girs youre perfect and skinny and i would never hurt you, (it wasnt random) but anyways i dont trust guys bc a lot told me they liked me then ended up hiding a gf or liking someone else & when i told him that im scared hes like that he started saying how he would never and etc and cute things ( and i know forsure hes not 'liking me' just to get in my pantss) and tomorrow hes coming to my school bc he has one cl at my school 30 min after my schools over to meet me(ill wait to see him) then hes heading off to his cl (we dont go to the same school) do you guy think he does sorry its 4 am here i prob misspelled things or didnt make sence dont be rude thankss (:

Copyright: Using sports team logos within a blog?

The information that Jack gave has a few mistakes in it. You can not be arrested for using a teams logo. You can be sued for financial damages. using there logo falls under civil law and not criminal law. You can not go to jail for a civil matter!

How can i get my ex back?

Were both 15, I dumped him for a really lame reason after 10days about a month ago and now he wont talk to me anymore on facebook he goes to a different school and now i realise i miss all those times we had hanging out, he was so nice and kind and hot, he called me beautiful instead of hot and said i love you instead of ily and he was good for me now i regret it but i dont know if he would take me back or not if i talk on facebook he dont reply what do i do? By the way i cant call him

Hey guys I need help with ault that happened.?

Ok guys, I need to know if I am going crazy or not. The other day I was walking down the street and this man yells out to me “hey you get over here” I was like what do you want. He said you don’t think I know who you are? I was like ya because I have never seen you before in my life. He was like ok professor, I know what you have been doing around this part of town. I was like what have I been doing on this side of town. He was like well what you have been doing is my wife. I was in disbelief and said sir you are surely mistaken. He said naw man you the one with that fancy bmw. I was like sir yes I do own a BMW but I can ure you that I am not the one that has been with your wife. Then he started screaming at me talking about how my kind has been holding his kind down for to long. I was like what does this have to do with me doing your wife? He then went crazy and was yelling about how I just admitted it and he was going to have his boys pay me a visit. Then he starts to demand money from me and starts slapping me along side the head. I ran into the store and called 9-11. But when the police arrived they were just as weird. They were like we know what you are doing on this side of town. I was like not the doing his wife thing again. They said naw man that does concern us but what does is all the crack you been slinging in that fancy BMW of yours. I was like what are you talking about. They were like oh ya man, we seen you just the other day slinging down on Maple and 3thd street. I proclaimed my innocence and they arrested me for aulting the man who had just assaulted me. They said that there was witnesses that said I was the aggressor. I was like who? They were like old man Murphy. I said I did not see anybody standing around and I sure as heck did not see and old guy named Murphy watching. The said oh he knew it was you because of the fancy BMW you drive. They then took my hand cuff’s off after they had taken my wallet with my money. Then they said they better not see me no more and that you should have known to come down here and start trouble. Guys what is going on? Everyone seemed so convincing is it possible that I did all this and forgot. Was it a setup and they were all in on it? There are a million possible explanations but I need to know if I missed some important detail as to what happened. This was the strangest thing that has ever happened to me.

Could this be depression?

It's tough, thinking your alone. I feel the same way. Things will get better over time, that's a promise. You'll meet new people to be better friends and you'll meet a new guy who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. It might take time but just know that it will come. Right now just focus on making yourself happy, doing whatever you feel is the right thing for you to do. Spoil yourself, and dance to your favorite music when your alone, lol no joke it works.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Is there a GreyHound Bus station in Ann Arbor?

I'm coming from Cincinnati. I'm from Ann Arbor and I've never seen a bus station there. Is there one or will i have to take it to Detroit or somewhere?

My sunflower is getting kind of droopy..?

it's leaves seem weaker.... it's still green and standing but is there anyway to save it before it dies.... its only a few weeks... it got full sun and i watered it before going to work... i water it every day now since its hot... it was about 90 degrees out today...but the leaves seem droopy... is there anyway I can save it? is 90 degrees too hot?

Who is right me or my school administrator?

The pencil thing was handled good by you. **** happens. Although you have quite the record there so it's understandable that they might take this step. Shape up

Girlfriend nags me to death. EXTREMELY ANNOYING?

Maaaaaan, you've been dating an entire year and she's still acting like an insecure clingy preteen? Who cares about texting, or facebook? Tell her *** to sit down and play a video game with you, or she's just gonna have to find another man who doesn't mind turning into her little b*tch boy.

He texts me, wants to know me more. Won't talk to be in person! I see him everyday!?

Text him that you get pretty shy sometimes in cl but you would like to be able to talk to him sometime and then see what he does. That should tell him to make the next move. If he doesn't, I'm not sure what else to do after that other than to try to be more outgoing (I used to be shy too, I know that isn't easy). Good luck!

Is my personality really all that odd?

You are cles as 'odd' because you do not follow rules according to acts being socially inappropriate. These rules have formed randomly through human history. An example of this would be that people say skipping is social inappropriate, except for a child under 6 years of corse, but people would rather not do it in public, however many people have found that it is pointless this being inappropriate because it doesn't. Both you and I are one of those people, where we do not listen to the rules of socialness. This is nothing to do with social awareness.

Are you a Dragon Ball Z fan?

if so? why do people think it's a kids show? it had a lot of blood and gore,intense fighting,ual humor,alcohol,swearing from time to time...just because a lot of kids grew up with it doesnt mean its a kids show...it was actually meant for teenage boy,and in japan its actually rated r which i cant stand because of the awful and unfitting voices and music....

Is my stomach too fat?

I am 15, female, 5 ft 7 and about 10 st 5. when i suck my belly in, its usually about 29-31 inches, when i relax, its about 34 and when i push it out really far its about 37-38 inches. when i eat alot then my stomach can extend to about 39 inches and i look heavily pregnant! im moderately active and i eat relatively well, although yesterday i worked out that i ate about 3000 calories and i eat like that quite often, maybe thats why my stomachs so big. i havent got a "fat" belly as such, just a big pot belly and it sticks out quite far. when i stand up strait, relax my stomach and look down i cant see my toes although when i suck it in i can and i look quite skinny when i do. do you think i am fat and is it because i eat too much?

Sustaining a long distance relationship?

At least you can drive there. I had a LDR with my wife when we first got together and she was from the UK and I lived in Pennsylvania. I had to fly all the time. That is costly for a college kid with no job. But I made it work. We are married 7 years now. If it was not going to work, it would have been clear that it wasn't worth the effort. But we never felt like there was anyone else for us, there was temptation to be sure, and when you are an ocean apart, its easy to stray. As long as we came back to each other, that's all that mattered. If you feel like its worth the effort, if that 10 hour drive flies by on your way to see her, and the ride home seems to take a year then it's maybe meant to be. You will know whether its worth it the first time you have a choice to make between going to see her, and staying home to do something else. If you find yourself choosing to stay more than go, it may be a sign that the timing just isnt right.

Im looking for a job and i need one fast?

i really need a job right now, im currently in detroit mi i will do any kind of work i just need to make some extra money i am also open to internet jobs or data entry jobs......anything legal

Boyfriend made me cry?

He sounds sweet, I'm not really sure why that made you cry? Using protection is really responsible of him. However, you two are WAY to young to be having . When a man and a woman have it can release the same hormone in women, that a woman releases when she feeds her child. This causes a chemical bonding between the man and the woman (when they have ) and the woman and the child (when she feeds the child) so what I'm trying to say is that having sex with this boy, as young as you are will cause reactions that frankly, you're not emotionally ready to handle. So please, take your time, and wait till you ARE ready.

My mom thinks I'm lieing?

My mom Thinks I'm lying about sonething I was on 3way with a girl and guy just friend and when I hung up they said ily so I said it back and she thinks I was talking to "my bf" I don't even have a bf what should I do

Does he have a crush on me?

Yea i think he definately likes you. No doubt about it. What would make you think he didn't? It's pretty obvious...

Help With My Ghost/Demon Dream, what does it mean? Could it indicate a haunting?

Repeat after me "there are no such things as ghosts. there are no such things as ghosts".

Any good housing available?

I'm trying to move to a low cost apartment or rental property. I need two bedrooms rooms minimum. Know of any places in the Dearborn/Detroit area or close by surrounding areas. I'm looking near Henry ford community college. i need the areas to be safe for my daughter to grow in. Also, information on any program, government or not, that can ist a single mom with moving or paying bills.

Where can I find a Bakery in Detroit that customizes cakes?

my birthday is coming up and I dont want no plain cake that says happy birthday amber on it I want a cake with layers and purple frosting it doesnt have to be in detroit but near not 5 hours away

Is my fiancee cheating on me?

Umm... I'm sorry, what? Your boyfriend, let alone FIANCEE, should never ever tell you he'd be with another girl. Because being with another girl is not something he should be thinking about. I am not in your relationship, so I can't tell you if I think he could physically be cheating, but what he is doing to you is not right. He should not be taking his ex girlfriend out and telling you not to text him. You have made a commitment to one another and plan to be husband and wife one day. You have the right to text him when you please, see his phone when you please, you have the right to question his whereabouts, and you have the right to tell him that you do not feel comfortable with him going out with other girls. Because you shouldn't be comfortable with that. Because I am sure he would not be okay with you doing the same to him. He should not be telling you he likes other women either. I really think that you need to stand up for yourself and tell this man that the things he is doing is not respectful to you. As his future wife, you deserve more from him and you should expect more. This is the person you are going to be with for the rest of your life. Twenty years down the line is he going to be going to the movies with his ex then coming home and telling you "if i hadn't married you, i would have married her?" Stand up for yourself!!! You deserve that much! Don't let him do that to you.

Whats goin on with my gf??</3?

kay so me and kali met in forth grade and didnt see eachotther for years till one random october nite the night my grandma died and shortly after her gpa died fate you mite call it i doo!! any who we go out now since last thursday like we have been talkin for months text all the time tell eachotther love you but she still seems shy around me i kinda still am like we talk alot we kiss5 or 6 times a day but not makeout im not gonna lie im ready to get laid lol like she would send menaked pics sometimes with out askin but when where togother so i need to know how to make her more comfortable around me 1 , 2 how to get this girl turned on in real life and 3 how to make this girl fall head over heals for me and never want anyone else. like when i go to her house where alone when i get there it always takes her like 30 seconds to answer the door any ideas what that mite be?? we kiss hug sit down watch tv talk laugh and smile alot she always is like messin with stuff with her hands like phone remote pets ect?? soo plzz help me out here i RLY and TURELY love this girl and have for a wile we said ily shortly after we met again makey 1 and a half weeks but any and all advise will e greatly appreacated plzz you girls out there tell me what to doo??:/ and i dont need some bullshit answer i need somthing that is gonna help not smart remarks thanks

Loveless marriage but 3 beautiful children to consider?

In brief this is me - put in orphanage aged 2 and adopted by strict catholic parents aged 4. DREAM - to one day get married and have children of my own. Simple. My adoptive parents - relationship not so good - shame, but it's not easy I suppose, bringing up someone else's kid. Anyway, growing up developed flushing/roscea disorder - inherited! Not much fun, everyone thinks that your embarred easily, when it just comes on from many things! Affects the confidence alot and makes it difficult to find person to love me (and DREAM!). Finally find a man who accepts my red face and we marry - after 8yrs of dating - married now for 11yrs. DREAM finally fulfilled - 3 beautiful children all under 8yrs at present. One with mild autism. Problem - not children - although alot of work - no family support - but husband has switched off. Barely talks to me, can't be bothered to do anything properly and gives me the following answers - "It didn't occur to me", "I didn't think", "I'll do it next time" but he just doesn't care. I constantly work hard to help my children especially the one with special needs but my husband has never picked up a book or researched anything that might show he has an interest in helping his kids. When the children fall over, he ignores them and if I say "look! he just fell over," he says "I didn't see" even if they are crying. When he is meant to be supervising them, if something happens, he blames them - even the 3yr old. I tell him that when your in charge of a small child, you have to take the responsibility for them, especially when so young, but he doesn't see it. Treats them as if they are adults and they should have known! I try to talk about how everything has fallen apart and he just says O.K. O.K. Needless to say, we don't have anymore - I cannot risk becoming pregnant again with this man and I don't want with someone who is treating us like this. I am just about keeping us afloat at the moment. Our finances are not great and when I try to talk about it and express my anxieties about our situation and what we should do, he says "I'll look into it" - but he never does. I'm really frightened about our future. I often think that we should split as its awful being tied to someone who has decided to opt out, when there is so much responsibility. My big, big concern is our 3 children. They would be devastated and I do not want to jeopardise the progress of our special needs child, or the other two boys who do not see the flaws in their father yet as they are so young. I have no family and I lack confidence in myself. I'm pretty exhausted. I hope I don't sound sorry for myself, because I'm not, and although I may feel terrible about it all, I am not "depressed" - don't have time for it. I always wanted a real family, and now I have one, finally after all this time, but I'm fighting hard to keep it. Why is he doing this? It nearly feels like he's doing it on purpose. But why? If he wants to go, then maybe he should. I have a gut feeling that he wants to go (as the going has got tough) but his biggest fear is what people will think of him leaving us, instead of what it will do to us. The flaws didn't show too much before we had children, as he's fine at going on holidays and watching t.v. He has never stood by me when there has been incidents where a husband/friend would stick up for you but I didn't mind when it was just me, because I was grateful to have a boyfriend/husband. But now, he doesn't stick up for the children either and that's hard to stomach especially since my oldest has suffered bullying. I suppose its a feeling of being on my own with it all and this person just floats in the house and out and is called husband and daddy! What should I do? I was thinking that maybe I should do the stay together for the sake of the children scenario - until they grow up - and then we can call it a day. But that's harder than it seems with him, because he's opted out so much. Any serious advice please, this is our lives and although I do enjoy humour - this one isn't funny. Thank you and all the best to you all.

Is he "taking time" or does he just hate me?

i think he having a problem or sometihing is happening however y don't you go and see him? And make sure everything is ok with him.. i think he love you and it wasn't the right thing to do by sending that message

Does Stevie Ray Vaughan do a cover of Purple Haze?

I was watching a Bill Hicks stand-up the other day and the intro song was Purple Haze, but it didn't sound at all like any Hendrix version I had ever heard. It sounded a lot like SRV's guitar playing, but I haven't been able to find a cover or even a live performance or anything. Does anyone know if Stevie Ray Vaughan ever did a cover of Purple Haze? If so, where would I find it?

Is Eminems song Beautiful accurate in its claim in the opening scene?

In Eminems song "Beautiful" it is noted that in 1950 Detroit Collectively produced 36% of the Worlds GNP with 8 other US cites. Is there any source for this or verification of this claim?

Dose she love another?? </3?

kay so me and kali met in forth grade and didnt see eachotther for years till one random october nite the night my grandma died and shortly after her gpa died fate you mite call it i doo!! any who we go out now since last thursday like we have been talkin for months text all the time tell eachotther love you but she still seems shy around me i kinda still am like we talk alot we kiss5 or 6 times a day but not makeout im not gonna lie im ready to get laid lol like she would send menaked pics sometimes with out askin but when where togother so i need to know how to make her more comfortable around me 1 , 2 how to get this girl turned on in real life and 3 how to make this girl fall head over heals for me and never want anyone else. like when i go to her house where alone when i get there it always takes her like 30 seconds to answer the door any ideas what that mite be?? we kiss hug sit down watch tv talk laugh and smile alot she always is like messin with stuff with her hands like phone remote pets ect?? soo plzz help me out here i RLY and TURELY love this girl and have for a wile we said ily shortly after we met again makey 1 and a half weeks but any and all advise will e greatly appreacated plzz you girls out there tell me what to doo??:/ and i dont need some bullshit answer i need somthing that is gonna help not smart remarks thanks

LGBT: What's the nicest thing you've ever told ur special someone?

Well today my gf had a band concert so i went during lunch to see her and well i went to the restroom wit her. When we were there she was putting her dress on n stuff while she did i looked her in the eyes and told her baby ur so beautiful you don't need make up to look nice you have natural beauty and she smiled at me and said"awwww babe thank you ily" then she kissed me:))) What about yall???

Sprint gave me a michigan phone #...i live in texas?

my brother bought me a palm pixi for christmas, but when I got it they gave me a long distance number with a 313 area code...which I think is detroit michigan? I have always lived in northeast texas though... Either way I suppose I'll just have him call and change the number... Well, does anyone have any idea how this couldve happened?

Does anyone know how to contact Justin Verlander or Rick Porcello of the Detroit Tigers?

I am volunteering for a non-profit and in charge of running the annual fundraiser. I was interested in contacting Verlander or Porcello for the fundraiser and I could not find any contact information regarding their booking agents. Did not know if anyone could help!

Wearing low rise jeans in the summer?

Okay, so I love preppy clothing and stuff haha, but I was just wondering how many of you girls actually wore like low rise jeans in the summer? I can stand the tightness and stuff in the winter cause I like how they show off curves, but in the summer, sometimes, the tightnessss is just too hot and I feel really confined. Also, I sometimes wear uggs in the summer, but only when I can stand it. What are your opinions on wearing low rise jeans in the summer? Too tight? too hot?

Burress compared to Vick, return wise?

Well he probably isn't in shape, when Vick came back he was overweight and needed a year to return to form. Burress also is in his mid 30s which so his body is past it's prime. I bet he has a year or 2 left but when he returns should mainly be a red zone package guy before he get fully acclimated to the NFL again.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Problems with my boyfriend?

Okay, so my bf is really affectionate, like, he's always saying ily or how pretty i look and holding my hand and stuff. I, on the other hand, am really shy ( HA major understatement) so i don't really say things like 'that' that much ( i think it's becouse i'm a 'pushover' so my bf's usually treat me like dirt and i'm not used to hearing that stuff). It's not that i don't Feel this way towards him ( and i do <3 trust me) or that i don't like hearing him say that but i just feel uncomfortable telling him things like that for some reason, basically im wondering what i can do to let him know that he's my mr. amazing.

Out of control toddler... please HELP?

No wonder he does that...you are beating him! Use less cruel punishments like a time-out or something, but never ever beat a child. Why would you use a belt on a 4 year old? And duh he hides, he doesn't want to be beaten! Sorry but really? Be nice to him, and he will be nice back!

What is detroit business cunsulting?

they just called me asking if i want to work for them? is it another scam? do i have to sell knives? please anything could help i have a interview with them tomorrow.

Is this girl using me?

Ok so this girl lives in Ga I'm in Ca,we started talking one day cuz I used to live their and be friends with her.And we decide to go to FL as friends to see eachother.Well while were at FL a day later we start dating and we've done stuff and I bought her alot of stuff.Then when she has to go back we tell eachother we can try to work it out,then 4 days later she says shes grounded for 2 months and breaks up with me cuz we can't talk but she says she still loves me etc...then a week later she calls me and tells me she needs 200$ for extensions,so I say ok I'll try and she's say ily etc...So is she like just using me to get stuff or do u think she really does love me?:( We had sum good moments in FL

Paid summer marketing internship in metro Detroit?

I am a high school junior about to be a senior and I am interested in a paid summer internship. Mainly I would like for it to be business related specifically marketing or advertising, but I am really up for any sort of office job. Not so much directly serving people. Where should I look for a 1) part time 2) summer only 3) paid internship 4) office job 5) for a high school junior? Thank you for any help you can offer!!

Why does an American city, Detroit, still look like something out of a third world country in the year 2011?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1370199/Detroit-Haunting-photos-crumbling-remains-highlight-decline-Motor-City.html

I got tickets for an outdoor concert?

But I don't know if they are good. They are at DTE Energy Music Theatre in Detroit. This is my first concert there. The seats are RTC6 Row BB Seats 5-8. Do they have a good view? Thanks so much.

Strep throat!!!!! A kid had it and is contagious! plz read!?

So i was in my 6th grade science cl ( i AM 13..) when a kid who had had STREP THROAT had been gone for more than a week. He was coughing,and his voice was weak and she kept coughing and spitting on me. I kept saying, "STOP!!!!!" and all he said was "Hehe!" Ughhhh these people bother me! Now I am afraid i will get it. I dont know if he took meds. :( I have done the salt water mouth-wash thing. So I was wondering, are there any things I can do to help myself!? PLEASE! I will choose a best answer ! :) Please! THANK YOU SO MUCH! ILY! :)

Feeling unattractive while pregnant?

Yeah, I am the same way. I don't do my hair hardly ever, and put makeup on once in a while. I just can't bring myself to doing it while I am sitting around the house all day. When ur husband says things like that tell him that ur not feeling good about urself and that it hurts ur feelings. Just be honest.

I think my bf is lying to me..about EVERYTHING!?

The fact that he got angry when you confronted him about things, shows you are close to the truth that he is a player. I think this guy is a creep.

My bf pissed me off a lot, and i cant seem to forgive him?

honestly i think he is sorry because he wouldnt keep saying it when you really didnt say anything back besides ok... but if you need to talk ill be glad to help =]

I have always thinking about a boy 3 years younger than me... how can I stop?

I can't meet him anymore, we were in a 2-days-and-1-night camp and I had a big big crush on him. I'm 18 nor but he's somewhere about 14 or 15 years old. I know I stand no chance to get a relationship with him, but I just can't get over him. He is obviously doesn't know and even if he knew, he would not care either because we live in different states... I know it's wrong to think about him. I just move so I have no friend... What should I do?

Alright, just my two cents and I'll be brief because...? (Nothing bad please read)?

..I know you guys are tired of hearing about all of these things, but I've been hearing a lot about this today because of the whole Tracy Morgan rant and I answered such a question today myself. But of course it remains that many people still believe that ity is simply a lifestyle choice that is made. And the argument for that belief is that kids are too young to know what uality is growing up and it is only when they hear about it or see something about it on TV maybe that they realize what ity is and it's then that they make their choice to be that way. However, if I'm not mistaken, if kids are hearing about being gay on TV and such and they hear that maybe it's "cool" to be that way and that's what they want to do with their lives, then it stands to reason that they are also hearing about how being gay is a sin and it's bad and not something you should do, and they're hearing about people being bullied and killed because of their ual orientation. Therefore, if offered the two "choices" of being ual or heterosexual, who would hear the negative stuff and say, "Hmmm, I think I'm going to join the LGBT community." Who is going to grow up hearing that they're going to hell and such for being gay and then is going to say, if truly given the choice, "Yeah! That's what I want! A life of persecution and ridicule. Sounds like fun!" Let's ume you could make that choice, what would really drive you to pick that life after hearing about all of the bad stuff. Sorry, guess I wasn't as brief as I intended to be :)

Which would you prefer: Business-run lemonade stand or a Federal Government-run lemonade stand?

I'd prefer both, because if the lemonade stand-community were to price-gauge, then there'd be a backup measure to bring down those inflated prices.

I need to find out what to do for court. Paternity testing question.?

I was ordered by the referee to pay for the paternity testing of my youngest son. My soon to be ex husband works, makes more money then I do and lives with his parents. I take care of both of my kids, by myself and I'm struggling to make ends meet. I didn't get a lawyer for our divorce because I don't want anything from my ex husband. I cannot afford the 525$ to get paternity done. What do I do? I literally cannot afford to get a lawyer, or the test it is way out of my budget and I think paying rent and putting a roof over my kids head is more important. My question is what do I do now? Do I go back to court in July and just tell the judge that I can't afford it? I don't know if I will get into any trouble either. Any help would be great. I live in the metro-Detroit area.

Whats wrong with my palms?

like while i swim or take really long shower on my palms are like white spots, not really spots but the skin rises a little so it looks like there is water or something but its white and totally stands out. its not a rash but resembles it cause it is just randomly in the middle of my palm. i think its cause my skin is dry and i dont usually put any lotion on them. i tried scraping them off and it came off so i think its dry dead skin. but i just wanna know what it is if u know and how to help. i dont have a picture..but if you kinda understand what it is by my explanation please help:)

Are these all these signs that I'm getting dumped?

He's definitely not interested anymore. He's either cheating on you/likes someone else or just doesnt like you anymore. BUILD YOURSELF A BRIDGE AND GET OVER IT.

Has a "straight" guy/girl ever "played around" with you?

yeah, my best friend actually used to do this. she would always lay on me and hold my hand and joke to other people that we were together. i finally had to tell her to cut it out because even though she was completely straight and off limits i started to get feelings for her.

My girlfriend broke up with me because of certain things I do.?

quit tryin to rule people shes an adult and makes her own decisions obviously she smokes pot so what..i bet shes still a good person regardless right. sounds like ur just insecure find a different mate who has no flaws in your eyes. good luck lmao

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

He ignores me, then says he misses me!! I am so confused?

It sounds very odd that he always has this problem that prevents him from seeing you and also his hot and cold reaction towards you. If he is telling the truth and always getting into trouble then that is not good, Also if he is lying and not telling you what is going on then that doesn't bode well either. I would suggest you find someone more into you and not have all this drama going on.

My boyfriend says he loves me and were on and off but im only 14!!?

OK so im 14 and he's 13 iv been on and off dating him for 3 yrs and we always seem to work things out but recently he's been saying "i love you" or texting me "ily LOTS!" and im not sure if he means it i want to believe he does but im not sure please help? and please no answers about to young or that puppy love crap thanks!

Why are white people ashamed of their race and bite the black style?

The problem that I have is that they never even acknowledge what they take from us. They will just do it and act like they don't know where it is from which makes me mad because then it looks like stealing. Blues, Rock and Roll, Country and Folk come from us but you would never know because they act like it doesn't. They do the same thing with clothing and foods. Like they all just fell from the sky. Give credit where it is due that's all I'm asking.

Questions for men girls can comment too?

ok so i just turned 20 last week and im living with my bf we love each other ..but sometimes he sais things playing around that make me feel bad lol..like um my are 34 b but my are big he sais women that hav had kids hav big but i havent had kids nd when we watch he sais like look at het cute small ...and my oris is big i mean not huge .cuz when i see i see sum girls and most looks like they dont have a do u guys like that??.. nd also do u men lik the taste of vagina nd the smell???cuz my bf sais its salty idk...and also ive only been with 3 guys my whole entire life does it mean im loose or something?? idk if he only sais it bcs he gets mad cuz he knew i wasent a virgyn he will be like i wished u were a virgin nd he wud say comments about virgyns like good ones lol i get mad and he will say ily u know im just playing.also is it all bad to have a small azz??

Guy starts to ignore me?!?

What was the true conversation,the exact words you have chatted about?:)because it depends,if this real guy cant dealt with it,then do your routine,surf up,ive heard this website,you might check it out!

What is wrong with me? Why am I a bore who hates to party?

You have to be who you were meant to be. Dont drink dont hang out at clubs. Not everyone is into that enjoy what you like

My girlfriend was d about a month ago and we just found out she is pregnant and I need advice?

About a month ago my girlfriend was d and she didn't tell me about it till just now and She is pregnant! and I am forced into a place i don't know if I am ready for I haven't had with her and we were pretty close to getting engaged and now I just don't know what to do this was wrongly done to her and I want to stick by her and be there for her! But I have so many questions and no answers! I want to spend my life with this girl! and I want to have my children with her and I have to watch her have someone else's Child! She didn't deserve this and she is going through way to much right now and i can't burden her with my worries and concerns! I have never used this Q&A thing before but I have no one to talk to and everyone that has always given me good councle in the past I asked them for advice and they all said I have no idea and I know someone will know! Anyone who has encouragement or has ever had someone d that they loved, and they stood by their side i need some advice!

LOL has this happened to anyone else?

I've heard a lot of people getting that. I think it's like an ad of some kind. If it gives you a link then don't click it

Future alignment of the nhl?

your dates are screwed up. winnipeg is the 2011-2012 season. and phoenix is going to stay there for the 2011-2012 season

Tracy Morgan talks gives his viewpoint on ity big deal or not?

i've never heard a comdedian say 'if i saw a black person i'd stab him!' i think there a line and it sounds like he crossed it

In the usa,is it usefull to understand the african american accent?

What "accent" are you talking about?,since African Americans are as American as anyone else.American accents in general are very diverse since there exist the Texan accent,Florida accent,Californian accent,etc..Americans(regardless of their race)in general possess the accent of the state in which they were raised in as children.

Cute middle names for facebook?

Ok so iHad 2 change my name on facebook (long story) but it was Taylor Fry n my real middle name was alexandra but now iPut as my first name Alexas. A lot of my frwndz hav middle namz such skittles,ily, n der fav footbal team etc. But wut do Uu thnk wuld go gud wif my name or juz sumthn cute thankz:)!!

How much alcohol can I bring back?

I live in Ohio. In 4 weeks, I'll be flying from Detroit, MI to Miami, FL, and then aboard a 4 night cruise to the Bahamas and Key West. Flight is with American Airlines, cruise is with Royal Caribbean. I'm interested in buying alcohol from the Bahamas, but I do not know my limits... it seems pretty confusing. I know that whatever I bring onto the ship, Royal Caribbean keeps until the last night, but what about the airlines? And what would the taxes be like? Thank you!

Read and tell me if this short story sucks or not...?

Dang!!!!!! Only 12...I'm almost twelve!!!! I like it, write more! I love how you describe in such detail *shivers in delight* :D

Can anyone recommend a reputable auto mechanic that makes house calls on the west side of Detroit?

We have three yes (3) cars in my driveway with various problems and I would like them repaired and back on the road. I would appreciate a reputable, knowledgeable mechanic to come and give me some estimates on how much each will cost to get them back drivable again. I don't want any one that is coming to give me some outrageous prices. No one who is guessing what the problem (s) is/are. If you are or know someone that is honest . If you want to make an honest dollar or two please respond to this.

Is it bad for a 13 year old to not be able to write in cursive?

I don't know why schools are still teaching cursive. Not only will you never have to use it in your adult life, but chances are good you will actually be prohibited from using it when you get to college.

Goth kids getting bullied????

Take it up with a teacher or guidence consler.Or confront her yourself you shouldnt care what other ppl think hun.Email me to talk more k? - truelinds13@yahoo.com

Helpp Exx advice? <3?

is it still bad if u talk to ur ex like if u were still a couple? like we still say ily n corny stuff lol like any couple would sayy and when we see each other its like seeing each other all over again n we have been broken up since august 10 so what can this mean?

Dream about my ex.what does this mean?

It means you probably want him back and he probably wants you back, but dreams are dreams and many of them aren't true and many of them ARE true. It's up to you to decide what you're feeling.

Does she really love me? or am i freaking out?

.Bob there is no meter to measure love.Nor is it important about who says I love you first.The fact that she wanted you to meet her family proves she cares.Have you invited her to meet your family yet

How to be more comfortable with saying "I love you"?

I am perfectly fine with saying it to my mom and dad (I'm fact, I might say it excessively), but anyone else it just feels uncomfortable. I mean family friends might say it and I would be like "you too!" but I feel like I'm being rude. And also, how can I be more comfortable with saying it to my friends ( I mean just saying like " luv ya!"? Or texting "ily!"

What does this dream mean?

Last night I had this dream and idk why was going on really but for some reason me and a bunch of people were at this place where a bunch of guys stood there in rows and then stripped. And then later there were a bunch of other guys (clothed) and there were two of them that were SOOOOOOO beautiful and perfect. Like, the hottest people I'd ever seen in my life lol

My girlfriend has been upset recently...?

honestly, just leave her alone. obv shes going through ****, but thats no excuse to be pissy. dont spoil her by constantly trying to cheer her up

What kind of food do they sell in concession stands in India?

If I were to go to a sports event, like cricket, in New Delhi or Bangalore, what would I find at a concession stand? Cokes and stuff, I'm sure, but do they sell pretzels or curries or anything like that?

My boyfriend is acting different? I really need some advice!?

You should sit him down and make sure he is okay ask him why he hasn't been acting like himself anymore.

Whats goin on with my gf </3?

kay so me and kali met in forth grade and didnt see eachotther for years till one random october nite the night my grandma died and shortly after her gpa died fate you mite call it i doo!! any who we go out now since last thursday like we have been talkin for months text all the time tell eachotther love you but she still seems shy around me i kinda still am like we talk alot we kiss5 or 6 times a day but not makeout im not gonna lie im ready to get laid lol like she would send menaked pics sometimes with out askin but when where togother so i need to know how to make her more comfortable around me 1 , 2 how to get this girl turned on in real life and 3 how to make this girl fall head over heals for me and never want anyone else. like when i go to her house where alone when i get there it always takes her like 30 seconds to answer the door any ideas what that mite be?? we kiss hug sit down watch tv talk laugh and smile alot she always is like messin with stuff with her hands like phone remote pets ect?? soo plzz help me out here i RLY and TURELY love this girl and have for a wile we said ily shortly after we met again makey 1 and a half weeks but any and all advise will e greatly appreacated plzz you girls out there tell me what to doo??:/ and i dont need some bullshit answer i need somthing that is gonna help not smart remarks thanks

IF YOU LOVE MAKEUP U WILL CLICK HERE!!!?

Hey as the name says ... On of them is best for volume one of them is for length ... The volume is very glumly because I tried it and hated it and the length one is really goodand seParates the lashes very nicely ... Although the fusion one is really da best ... It gives u volume and length but gives u a little less length than the actual length mascara... Go buy the fusion !!! But what I do is ( might seem a little crazy ) I use both length and volume ... So firstly use volume then wait for it to semi dry then use length ... That gives me the best result ... But if u seriously can't afford or don't wanna buy both then fusion works just as good ...

What should i do about him?

I realllyy realllyy like my bf like we say ily constantly (I'm only 14) but my parents hate him...thy have never met him they said if they ever caught me talking to him again they will call the police and make sure I hVe no life...we had to break up once bc my parents found out but we are going back out and I'm scared they will fi d out

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

He's stopped telling me he loves me and is acting weird?

I would ask him what's going on....I would hate to tell you what is really going on. Just talk to him to find out where you stand in your relationship.

Girlfriend nags me to death. EXTREMELY ANNOYING? ?

I suppose she wants to get your attention and wants you to care for her. Perhaps u can try typing in your facebook that you love her so to let her know that u actually treasure her and care for her. At least for the time being, she will not nag u :)

Is it possible to dislocate a testicle?

I was masturbating then I look down and the left side of my was sorta flat so I go to feel it then my testicle was gone.I feel down and see a bulge almost on the crease of my leg and automatically knew that was my testicle.I push it back up and it happily stood there with no pain or anything.This happened like 3 extra times.Should I be worried because I wonder if I close my leg and I squish a testicle and that fact scares me.Advice or solutions.

I really need help! it would mean a lot //?

Yo are you 12? You shouldn't worry about a silly Facebook post. If he likes you, he will ask you out. All you need to do is be patient. Don't worry-- it's a virtue.

FOr anyone with a great sense of humor?

FLABvertising! Tattoo your chubbiest employee with various slogans and logos and put him in the street shirtless to dance. Remember to figure in the extra cost of the lawsuit/severance settlement.

AGAIN, I ask: What does it mean if someones birth chart has a negative "total value" on cafe astrology?

* I have no idea what orb value means here. No one I know knows either. Maybe contacting cafeastrology.com will get you an answer.

He always says.....?:\?

A guy I'm friends with just says "bye" or "ttyl" or "nite" in the middle of convos. If he needs to go, he could atleast say "ok I'm going to sleep now. I'll ttyl bye luv u". I mean we aren't going out but he could be a little nicer!!!! Because whenever I have 2 go I say something lk "byeee ily ttyl nite:)''. All he says is like one word and randomly 2.....I don't like it. Why does he do that? Could it mean he isn't interested???

Where can i get this stylish jacket?

I don't know where abouts you live, I'm guessing UK/Ireland because it's Corornation Street. It's a bad time to be shopping for jackets now, as it's now the Summer season. Maybe wait until Autumn or Winter, and then try topman, next, and other casual men's clothing shops.

Friend looks down upon me?

Im in middle school and i moved to another district so when i first went there in 6th grade i didnt have many friends but now im in 8th grade and i have pretty decent amount. I have one friend i met in 7th grade. She was in my cl for two years. We became pretty close except now i feel like she looks down on me. Im short and shes really tall. She always points out things i wear some days. She sometimes gets pissed at me for no reason. One time i got mad at her but didnt say anything when she said i didnt have any friends in a joking matter. Whenever i talk about someone she says oh i used to be best friends with that person. Right now she might have said that 7 times and its annoying. One time we had to do a project with two other people. I had to do my math hw. She told me to not do it and we had to do our project so i put it away. Then she was on facebook. So i decided to start my hw again. Then she was like okay lets start. Then she goes like your not even helping. (All she had to do was import files into the comp) she told me i never do anything. So i told her she was just on facebook and even if i did help theres nothing i have to help with. That sort of shut her up.... Whenever i go to another friend she knows them too. We say ily to them (jokingly) and then she sort of grills me. Before she used to always call me short and at first I joked along with her but now its annoying. She got mad at me because i didnt tell her things that my other friend told her not to say. Lastly when we did the project, she left first. One of the other girls (she tends to cling to) she kept texting me about what we were doing and she said she was "curious" but im pretty sure its because she wants to be in on everything that happens. So i ignored her. When her and my other friend talks about guys she reminds me that i wouldnt know because ive never had a boyfriend. The truth is i dont want one. Thats that but shes like sure... okay. I dont want drama because im going to highschool soon anyways but her attitude towards me feels like she looks down on me. In the hallways she sees people i dont know. I dont care because she probably went to elementary school with them and i didnt. So... how do i change her way towards me? And she tends to curse at me sometimes.... not ever serious... maybe. Like Fck of ***** or something like that.... Sometimes when she says it she looks pissed at me or w.e. Please help? Should i wait it out or Solve the problem? and How?

How to wean a 16 month old baby from feeding?

my son has always been feed to fall asleep in the night, we co-sleep. in the day time he never get to nurse from me at all, he sleeps very good in his pram without being nurse to fall asleep. but in the night time, after giving him evening ritual, he will be nurse to fall asleep. he wakes up twice or thrice in the middle of the night to be nurse. this are his daily habits. but now comes my problems. yesterday he started biting me when he his being nurse. he has been constantly trying to bit both my and i have no idea why. he never did this before, its like he just wanna bite instead of being nurse. so i have to forcely stop him from being breastfeed to fall asleep, but then he could not fall asleep. it took him 2 hours yesterday before he manage to fall asleep, may husband advice me to try to let him watch his favorite sesame street so maybe he will fall asleep, so he did, but then he woke up 12am and there comes another big problem. i tried to nurse him so he can fall back to sleep but he started biting me already after 30 seconds of being nurse. he could not fall asleep, i tried to let him watch again then he got relax but did not manage to fall asleep. it reach us around 330am and he was still complaining. so i put him in his pram then that was the only time he fell asleep. today i tried making him sleep in his own bed and it took us 2 hours again before he fell asleep. i manage to nurse him for 10 mins without being bitten but when i put him in his bed he got relax and i let him watch but after he got tired of watching he insisted of standing over and over again in his bed, so i took him and tried to breastfeed him to fall asleep but then he started biting me so i put him back to bed and finally after some time he got relax, and he fell asleep.i am force to stop nursing him now, but i really dont know how to make him sleep in his own bed without me having to nurse him.this is all new to him, and i dont know what to do if he wakes up in the middle of the night for feeding. i could really use advice right now. im very tired and exhausted and i dont know what to do anymore.

Girls, you know this? Who should I?

A bunch of us got together and decided we were going to bet money on a slapfight between 4 girls to see who was better. The girls are all 16 and 17. The girls are 1 blonde who's 5'7, and some botty too! Another brunette, real thick, but only 5'4. A cute Latina chick who's only 5'2, and a black girl, thick who's 5'6. We matched up the black girl against the brunette and the blonde against the Latina. Each had to go for 15 seconds. But not non stop. 1 smack for each girl, and the other girl could either block or duck and return with 1 of her own. Everyone was betting on the Latina and the black girl to win. The winners face off in a final. Each girl was paid 20 bucks for the first round, no matter what, with 50 bucks going to the winner of it all. So first the black girl and brunette went. The brunette brings her right hand around and smack! got the black girl right on her cheek! but the black girl just kept hanging out her own right hand and slapped the crap out of the brunette, the brunette never could block it. But the brunette did land a few good right smacks, the black girl couldn't block hers either, we were surprised. The black girl won though. Then the blonde went against the Latin chick. The Latin chick tried to smack her with her right hand but the blonde ducked and came up and stood there. Right hand flip, SMACK! right on the Latin girl's cheek, and it HURT! The Latin girl only landed like 2 partial smacks, but the blonde chick was TOO FAST for her! Right hand flip, SMACK! Right hand flip, SMACK! The blonde was too good! She won. Now everyone says the black girl's gonna win, but I dunno. Who should I bet on? Who would you bet on? We're not all betting the same amount.

What kind of hat is this, and where can I get one for myself?

If you wanted a cheap and good quality hats.you can click in: a href="http://yep.it/sqjkrn" rel="nofollow"http://yep.it/sqjkrn/a . These hats fit like a dream, which is appreciated.

Is Detroit the most striking example of a once thriving city ruined by years of liberalism?

In the US? Quite possibly. But I don't want to be labeled xenophobic, so I'll be open-minded and say look at Europe.

Is anyone interested in a fancy medium pony in PA?

LIckity Split aka Slick an 8 year old chestnut medium is the perfect first pony. He walks trots canters around and jumps 2'3-2'9 courses w/changes. Hes truly a sweetheart and always cares about the riders safety. He will trot around for little girls all day and can take anyone from short stirrup to the childrens. He is registerd for USEF too. He is totally bombproof, clips, trailers, stands for bathes, farriers ect. We really really need him sold because i've outgrown him): Thanks guys! ill send you pictures when you contact me along with the price

Do you think my boyfriend has been cheating on me?

Okay we've been together 6 months and he has always been so compionate and acts like he cares so much about me. But he got a new job 2 weeks ago and he doesn't have a specific time he gets off. Sometimes he gets home at 8,9,10,11. But he's been acting like he just doesn't care and I saw that his ex girlfriend had sent him an email basically saying she hopes he's doing good and hopes he's happy and sry too hurting him she also said people change and I have. Well I've been asking him why he's acting different and he keeps saying I'm not ily toy have nothing to worry about. He also knows I know about the message she sent him but we never even talked about until today. I finally came out and said have u been talking to your ex? He was like um NO! I said alright if I find out you have and u lied about it I'm done. Andbi I said ill just ask her he was like ok. Well after I said that he's been hugging and kissing on me acting like hour cares. And lately all he's done is play xbox and not even talk to me. I was about to go to the store after I said all that and he was like I want to go baby. Do u guys think he's been talking to her and now he's scared ill find out so he's being nice and caring again?

The girl i like..is pregnant?

So theres this girl, we liked each other, but she had a guy that she was on and off with , she decided to pick him, i was cool about it, she told my friend, that she would be dating me if she wasnt with him and that they just got serious.. i was like whatever, so i run into her, she flirts with me and ****, i thought i had her, then i ended up goin to the movies the same night she was with him... i cried... anyways so i run into her a few days ago, she looked at me and smiled, expecting me to come up to her, i didnt i looked at her and turned my head.. the same day my friend tells me she told him she was pregnant with the guys kid, and that the parents hate her, and that they want her to abort the kid, her excuse was she didnt have a condom, and so they just had raw, i was disturbed that she was pregnant, but i cant stop thinking about her, im goin crazy i havent slept in forever, another problem is im really rascist of the kind of guy , thats the father of the baby, (hes not black dnt worry) i was really goin to wait for this girl, to leave the guy, i really like this girl, i dont know what to do, please help me , should i move on and forget about her, i just cant stand the fact that she pregnant , it feels weird that bc of me a new life was formed, if i had asked her out earlier she would be with me and not that piece of ****, and this woulda never happend. me and her are pretty young to straight outta high school, she told my friend specifically not to tell me, so im even more hurt idk why she would do that to me.

High school relationship advice?

Okay so I met this girl (she's a freshman, I'm a senior) in august and we hung out but her mom didn't approve. But we were able to see each other in school and go to a park every now and then. Her mom found out eventually though so she stopped going. We became distant and broke up. She got a new boyfriend in February but they broke up last month. Last week me and her started talking again. My feelings never really disappeared but I'm not sure about her..she tells me she likes me and shes told me she still loves me but I'm not sure what to think. She avoids me in school and only wants to text and occasionally skype. And whenever I tell her ily or send a heart she doesn't answer. Do I give up? Keep going? Is it worth it?

Will my biceps, triceps & shoulders be big when i do this weight training routine?

They'll get bigger to some extent, but just lifting 20kg won't help much. When I was 12, I lifted 50kg.

What are some cute and sweet i miss you forwards?

okay so i need a i miss you forward..for example:FwdFwd:blah blah(something sweet) send this to 10 people you miss..i better get one back,like an ily forward..i miss talkinq to u on the fone..txting or watever u could think of..please and thanks i please need it by tonite (:

Field boots from ethical sources?

There is nothing ethical about wearing leather. I have a beautiful pair of synthetic field boots I bought from Dover Saddlery. They are comfortable and look great. They have many choices too. Check them out on line: www.doversaddlery.com

I am totally losing my mind?

Just to begin with i suffer with severe anxiety and depression and i am on meds. ok i snapped about a month ago. my hubby and i are moving to new place after 5 years here we have a 5 year old son who just finished 4 k and is now going to be going to school full time. He had made friends over the year and i talked to some of the moms and talked now they want to hang out and that freaks me out. It open a flood gate of thoughts that are slowing killing me like should i leave my hubby which then leads me to felling empty and suicidal and i don't know what that means. I cant stand being near my mother or father since they cause tension with my hubby and all i am is angry sad and hopeless feeling right now. i know i need to seek help but what if she tells me to leave my hubby i cant take it i just cant. am so damn scared. I just want to be happy like i was and have a peace-full family life. any help please.I cant eat or sleep

I have hidden the truth/lied to the love of my life for 2.5 years. Can this be salvaged?

Wow..I'm a little confused but I think I got it. Whatever you did before being with her shouldn't even be an issue..if we all had to answer for the things we did before meeting out SO we would all for short. When you broke up you had every right to move on just as she did..that should not be an issue either...except maybe for you and the fact she ran back to her ex so quickly ( red flag ) This woman has serious trust and insecurity issues.I can tell you are a great guy and want to work this out, but she has to be able to take responsibility for her part in all of this. I don't think you can " fix " things by constantly apologizing for things you don't need to apologize for. You haven't cheated on her...she is playing this out like you have and you are giving in to her drama. I think you need to take a step back and let her try and see her part in all of this. Let her apologize to you for a change for her on again off again love for you....one night she loves you and in the morning she doesn't WTF is that about??? I understand you wanting to work this out and the fact that you love her..but frankly I think she might need to talk to a professional about her issues she has with trust and relationships in general..otherwise you might be on that roller coaster for a very long time. Good luck :)

How messed up is this?

So I was talking to this girl who I like a lot and plus before I continue excuse my language, but anyways she was going on and on today about all the problems she's having with her boyfriend and how he's an a hole and always in a bitchy mood or attitude, then she tells me how she has feelings for me and flirts with me quite a lot, then she tells me if I can do her a favor and I was like sure, and she was like can you kiss me tomorrow, and I was like sure why not since I like her, so then she tells me how we should go out like boyfriend and girlfriend cuz she says they just broke up, and I was pretty happy because she was telling me how she wants to kiss me and hook up with me during spring break... Ok here's the fked up part now so then later she tells me that she's back with her boyfriend and I saw writing Ily<3 on his facebook wall. And she tells me she's sorry, how fked up is that like she shouldve told me it was inconsistant and that there was a possibility in getting back with me instead of talking to me about all this bs, how messed up do you guys think this is? she just crushed my heart :'(

I like your Christ but not his Christians. The bible says work out your own salvation with fear and trembling?

God said this for one reason and one reason only. Every person is responsible for his or her own salvation. You think using the example of imperfect christians is going to be an excuse for the way you live your life? I dont know anyone here I will probably never meet anyone here. THerefore there is no judging going on here except for those who stand accused by their own convictions. there is a question in there somewhere.

Monday, June 20, 2011

Is OCD a serious problem?

That doesn't sound like OCD, it just sounds like he's a perfectionist. Everyone has their quirks, and this just happens to be one of his. Hope this helped :)

Why does he have to so confusing?

He's not serious. He's like seeing if he can get you to do things for him, like if you'd allow him to touch you and stuff. He said he he wants to be friends, let him be. Don't complicate your life by worrying about him and trying to get him talk to you. I'm sure you're a pretty girl. Honey, he's not worth your time. Move on.

Can i get my teacher in trouble for this?

Actually, if anyone were to get in trouble (in addition to you and Emily for smoking) it would probably be the principal. In some districts teachers are not allowed to call ambulances. This is due to the fact that if it turns out not to be serious, the family may still have to pay for the ambulance.

How do you feel about MMA's direction?

For the most part I agree with you. That's why the Heavy weight division is more fun to watch. Those Big Boys can bang even at the top tier level. However we still have good knockout artist like Anderson Silva, Cain Valazquez, Jon Jones, and Shane Carwin come to mind. PS if you like brawling watch Joey Beltran tomorrow. He is not top tier and never will be but im a fan of his fighting.

Do I have commitment phobia?

Ok so I like this girl and she knows I like her and she likes me too but I mean I wanna kiss her but I just don't wanna go out with her or any one because idk why but I also get jealous when she moves on, and I still talk to her even though were like miles away , so idk it just sounded like I hav commitment phobia , I also don't say ily and when ido Ibearly mean it

HELP!!!!! Please!!! (Relationships)?

We went out for 2 days and he texted me saying i think the best thing for us to do is just be friends. So,i was like,ok....So when i got home i went on facebook,and saw he had another girlfriend....He was saying ily to her just like he dd to me....And he has a different girlfriend every week..... And i never changed my statues on facebook because i knew the relationship wasn't going to last long....And i was sooo pissed.

Can i get my teacher in trouble for neglegence?

I recommend stop making it out like it's you teachers fault when it was you who was acting like an idiot.

I said ily to another girl that isnt my girlfriend, my girlfriend got mad, (read story)?

Well ive been there and done that (kinda) Well just sit her down, be calm and tell her you didnt meant it as anything more than a friend. If shes mature about it she'll listen, if she isnt then just dump her. Trust me dude, her doing this just shows her insecurities, she probably wont ever trust you, no matter how much you try.

How can i enjoy my b day?? ( please read) ( 10 points)?

Celebrate life because you are alive to enjoy it, thanking God for all you do have and not what ya don't.

Best ways to get my ex back? Please help!?

Were both 15, I dumped him for a really lame reason after 10days about a month ago and now he wont talk to me anymore on facebook he goes to a different school and now i realise i miss all those times we had hanging out, he was so nice and kind and hot, he called me beautiful instead of hot and said i love you instead of ily and he was good for me now i regret it but i dont know if he would take me back or not if i talk on facebook he dont reply what do i do? By the way i cant call him

My girlfriend doesnot love me as much as i do for her after we have a lil kid. What can i do.?

When we both started i never had the intension we will come this far, she got pregnant for me at the stage and time we both not ready, i never denied and stood by her,when she gave birth the love i have for her grewup faster than ever, the boy is 2yrs old now and my plan is to settle down with her and the lil boy and a happy family. But nowadays she form some kind of irrational attitude that piss me off, its like she is tired of me and have been a nice guy, am confused dont know what to do.

Black people had it easier in the north in the 1920's and 1930's?

Jim Crow,Segregation,Scottsboro trials,lynchings all happened in the South in states like Alabama,Georgia,Mississippi the deep south.Well Motown was founded in 1959/1960 in Detroit and that the north and they seemed to have it good despite the 1967 riots but doo wop and things happened.I have watched movies about the jim crow and they were all in the south.I wish I could have live in the 1920's in New york.

He said I love you way too soon?!?

Were in middle school, have known eachother three weeks and haven't even been datin a whole week! But I said I love you too bevause well I didn't know what I could say that wouldn't hurt his feeling (we were on the phone). Idk what to do because there's no way he can love me when he barely knows anything about me and I barely know him too. I think ily is something really special and should e treated like it, not something to take lightly. I believe in live at our age, but not this early in a relationship. After I said it, I almost burst into tears instead of being super happy like I should have been. I'm not ready for love yet, he's my first boyfriend but I don't want to say anything to him...what should I do?????

What is this girl thinkin?

So I've been friends with a very good looking girl for the past year almost. Shes called me her best friend at times and she is one of my closest friends. We've been on a strictly FRIEND basis until she drove 4 hours to see me at college where we hooked up once. Since I've came back for the summer we've only fooled around and it was the first time we hung out since schools been out. I tried to fool around once after that but she pushed my arm away lol. That was almost a month ago. Ive slept over and cuddled but thats about it. The other night when saying goodnight she said ILY through a text. I kinda like her and think about her alot. What do you thinks goin on???

Any good housing available?

I'm trying to move to a low cost apartment or rental property. I need two bedrooms rooms minimum. Know of any places in the Dearborn/Detroit area or close by surrounding areas. I'm looking near Henry ford community college. i need the areas to be safe for my daughter to grow in. Also, information on any program, government or not, that can ist a single mom with moving or paying bills.

What is the best way to set boundaries between my mother in law and me when it comes to raising the kids?

I am having some issues with my husbands mom in how she likes to take control in raising our kids. It's like she is trying to raise our kids for us instead of giving us the chance to raise them ourselves and ask for help if we need it. She is always offering her advice, which is fine because we are young and don't know everything when it comes to raising kids, but we would like to be the ones to ASK for the advice before it is given to us. And she tells us when she wants to watch the kids, not giving us the chance to ask if she is available to watch them for us. I always thought it was the parents who asked the grandparents to watch the kids or to ask for help first, not the other way around. My husband is close to his mom because he works for her at his parents business. So he always is around her. I know she is a big influence on him but it's like he is afraid to stand up to her and take a stand. I'm sure he is afraid he'll hurt his parents or make them mad but I honestly think that if nothing gets done with this issue that it'll end up where everyone gets sad/mad at everyone else. I don't want that to happen. I want them to be a part of my kids lives - but I want us to be able to raise them and have a say in where they go, not having them tell me what is happening with them (sorry if that is confusing). It just seems she is trying to intervene in our lives and push her techniques on raising kids onto my husband and me. I'm taking everything into perspective and seeing both sides of it but I still think that since we made the decision to have a family we need to join together and raise them together, not having his mom always come and rescue us (when we don't need rescuing). It's like she is a safety net to him and he feels he can always rely on her when something goes wrong or when we take the kids out he feels they need to come with us in case the kids start getting fussy or throwing a tantrum. I think we can deal with those situations as they happen. Kids will be kids, I know that and yes kids cry and fuss - but as parents it's our job to resolve those problems as they happen, right? Not having his mom step in and take over. I just feel that we need to set boundaries so we know where everyone stands and everyone is happy in the end. thanks for the advice :)

Where did all these Detroit, Chicago, and New England trolls come from?

Well C, when a mommy troll loves a daddy troll very much....................................… Go ask your parents about the rest, I don't want to give away the ending.

How would I get these teams on my TV ( I live in Florida )?

I need the Saskatchewan RoughRiders, Detroit Tigers,Lions,Pistons, and Red Wings. Does anyone know any packages or companies that could allow me to watch these teams? btw I live in Florida

I need friends for PSN; I play COD and am a girl.?

The only problem with that is... theres no halo for ps3, the greatest shooter in gaming history.and i bet a retard could beat you, in cod.

How do you feel about the smy Media?

I hate what they stand for.All this ugly prying into peoples personal lives.They drudge up every hateful things that cause nothing but problems.True enough you have a certain way you must act in the public eye.But no one has any privacy anymore.And to me the internet is nothing but the devil...

Men, how would you feel if one evening your wife surprised you with a candle lit dinner?

like you came home, and she was standing by the dining room table with a y outfit on and a candle lit dinner waiting for you?

What do you think of this beginning? Critism please?

Oooh... I'm hooked! This is a very good beginning to your story. You add just enough detail - not too much, not too little. You did a very good job with this.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Where can I find a midnight showing of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Pt.2?

I live in Detroit, Michigan. And I was wondering if there were any midnight premieres of Deathly Hallows Pt. 2 around that area? Thank You =)

People against welfare... switch shoes for a second?

I was never against it. This is what makes America great. It's part of our duty as Americans to help each other out. I would rather them be on government istance instead of robbing people on the streets to survive.

What does it mean when someone says "i LUV u "?

What does it mean? They obviously don't love me . I think that saying I love you is different then I luv u or ily.

How to break up with someone without hurting them?

Well, my bf and i have been through so much and for some reason, i dont feel that connection anymore. he always says "ily and always will" or im-ing me whenever i get online. it just seems, annoying? it feels like hes trying to hard to be good bf and i understand that but.. anyways just help me on this. thanks.

How do i get my dad to accept the fact that im ?

im . i finally told my mom and dad. my mom doesnt have a single problem in fact she helped me find the girl im with right now...ily baby..anyways my dad said i cant have a gf bc im not and no matter how many times i tell him that i am.he doesnt listen.he keeps saying no your not. how do i tell him that he has to accept me for me and not turn his back on me?

Is my boyfriend angry at me and what should i do?

IT'S LIKE UR TELLING PPL ABOUT MY LIFE! i'm 13! me and my bf can't call until my mum goes out,and could never text when she's around,and we're not allowed to meet,and my bf's mum knows he has a gf and doesn't mind but doesn't want him texting all the time so he could study and i don't distract him,,that's probably what happened to him,he got yelled at for not being '' the perfect teachers pet '' and his mum doesn't want him to be distracted at all so she keeps telling him to talk to u all the time and spend more time studying ,,u don't want to lose him and don't want him to lose his phone,and btw ur not sure that he makes a the excuses up ,maybe they're true,u'll never know unless u were there,,forget it but just don't text ALL the time so he doesn't get his phone taken and u can't talk at all.GOOD LUCK

NFL:Is everyone else getting tired of the annoying New England, Chicago and Detroit fans/trolls?

I know I am. We need some type of mediation or something to stop this. I overlook it a lot, but if they were at least funny I wouldn't care but they're just annoying. The only troll I like from those three teams is Bear Down because he's actually funny the others just annoy me.

Girls boys please answer:) ily only if u answer?

Ok well I am not the girly girl and I am not a Tom boy that wears cargo pants to school I would wear like u know a tight top and basketball pants. I play outside and if I am not doing that I am on hear or doing homework. NO I am not a geek I hate school it's a waste of my time/life.but u know I want to know what dudes and girls or people think of me

How come in the US all small or major cities that have alot of Africans are complete dumps?

statisticly speaking these cities have more people living off of the government like living in section 8 housing and useing food stamps. so with more poverty there is a direct result of more crime. iv'e sceen it myself in New Orleans which im suprised it's not on the list because we have the highest murder rate per capita by more than 2.5X the next highest city

Can i get the teacher in trouble for this?

I think you could get her in trouble. Emily was very injured, and the teacher wouldn't let you get her the help she needed.

What are the scariest movies of these?

The descent was f*cking creepy. And lame. If you get scared easily, don't watch that. That, and it ends badly

I need advice on my boyfriend we've been together for a year an half.?

Move on. If he still loves someone else and you have been with him for a year I don't think him being single will help that. Now he just wont feel guilty for screwing her. Sorry for being so blunt but the sooner you move on the sooner you will feel better and be happy.

Does Newt Gingrich still stand a chance for the Rep. bid after all 16 of his campaign team resigned?

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What should I do?Please help?

My fa ily been robbed many time from car break in to stolen bikes and lawmores .when my family first mover here we had a white truck wig a DVD and a tv in it so we cod watch tv in it . When we went to mexico on a other truck when we came back we found out some one broke the back window to the truck and stole the tv .1 year after they stole my bike from our garage and tried to steal our lawn morer .2 year after they broke the window to a new truck we bought trying to steal what was inside but we didn't have any thing in it .we are sick of being robbed what do we do ?we think we know who it is .we think it are nabers becouse my family seen them smoking weed or some think one time .so we think they steal are things so they can get money to buy drugs .we have other prufe that they deal/buy drugs .there aways people going and leaving the house there aways new people and every day there new people staying there away different race and they don't look like family .I seen kid there too. What do I do .do I have enough to call the police and them that (we are thinking of buying camras ) do we have enough so the police start investigate please tell me

Whats the difference between ILY and I LOVE YOU.?

Me and this friend always text eachother saying ily or ly! and today i texted him something like "you love it really" and he said "no but i love you" It just seemed.. different.. or am i just thinking to much into it?

Is Detroit the most striking example of a once thriving city ruined by years of liberalism?

Yeah, they are. Liberal cities are dying. Detroit is one of the 10 most dying cites on that Newsweek articles. Liberals simply loot and pillage the nation's resources.

Just a little quick question about loseing weight!!?

Keep doing Just Dance or any other cardio you choose. As for food, just eat healthy. Don't drink a lot of soda or eat much candy, and keep portions small. Also drink 8 gles of water a day. You will still lose weight it just won't happen as quickly as when you didn't eat.

Im 13 my mom is a addict?

Im 13 and my mom is addicted to vicodin the pain pill im from detroit and brightmoor I kno drugs not pills any way shes about 5 foot 100 lbs and takes 10-12 750 mg at a time how long till she hits her limit and O Ds (hope she dont... Knock on wood)

How is Detroit these days?

Sun setin detroit around 530 here in detroit. How much snow do you have up there im ready to do some snowmobiling.

WHATS YOUR SCHOOL LOOK!?

I wake up, brush my teeth, take a shower (if I have time), do my hair (usually straight in the winter, or curly (with gel) int the summer. I live in FL, so it gets humid here), put on my uniform, do my makeup (nothing too dramatic. I like wearing mascara and eyeliner with my usual foundation. That's it.), and go!

Is it uncomfy wearing jeans in the summer?

Okay, so I love preppy clothing and stuff haha, but I was just wondering how many of you girls actually wore like low rise jeans in the summer? I can stand the tightness and stuff in the winter cause I like how they show off curves, but in the summer, sometimes, the tightnessss is just too hot and I feel really confined. Also, I sometimes wear uggs in the summer, but only when I can stand it. What are your opinions on wearing low rise jeans in the summer? Too tight? too hot?

What movie is this?! I saw a trailer for a movie where a guy goes back home & sees his teenage love.?

The image on rotten tomatoes was of someone, a girl I think, stood at the end of a pier looking out onto a lake. The film was a romantic comedy but I don't remember any stars in it.The premise, as far as I can remember, was two guys going home and there's a girl they fought over. It was an indie type film. Please help!

Why doesn't my boyfriend want me? ?

I am 20 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 30. We had an amazing life, he was living with me and didn't have a job. Are life started to lack pion after the first year, He said he just wasn't interested in it. I figured He had things on his mind or was feeling un "manly"... So now we have a house together he has a Job he loves, has a new truck, I'd say we are doing well but we haven't had in over a year. He honestly doesn't want much to do with me at all. Only says ily if I say it first. Gives me a quick peak befor he leaves. I talk to him and he gets defensive says stuff like " I have goals I'm tryin to reach and I'm working hard so I can enjoy life with you later, it's not all about sex and you don't always get what you want". I beg for sex, and he gets mad I want it all the time. I'm 20 I'm horny and sexy and he doesnt want me at all. I know he isn't cheating and the love is deff there but what can I do. I need the pion.. And well sex occasionally.

Do you think she actually likes me?

i my friends do not understand the ways of women i love women but understand them. There's a girl i work with both of us are gonna be quiting that place and going to work else where. I think she likes me and all the other girls there feel this way aswell they all tell us we should date. But, I'm nervous about asking girls out its hard for me so i try to wait for the right time. I believe she likes me cause when ever we talk she comes up to me and we talk the whole night at work, then we are waiters so we work around food and drink and from time to time we have ice fights and she always sits or stands by me, and after work when i'm still cleaning the kitchen and shes done she still stays and hangs around talking to me, and i was saying the other day how salad is rabbit food do i look like a rabbit and she was like "yea a cute black rabbit" then rubed my face she doesn't do this stuff with any other guy in fact she doesn't even talk to any other guys there.i'm wondering if she just sees me as a good friend or if she is trying to tell me she wants to be more then friends. I've posted this before but i want lots of opinions.

I live with a couple under my uncles home he owns it. I moved them in without signing a contract or nothing?

I moved them in myself with my uncles approval hoping for the best. But time went by and they began to show their true colors. They are disgusting they dont clean unless it benefits them, she quit her job to sell diet pills and she was selling them at a third parties house before but she started her "business" in my uncles place and even put signs up in front of my house. both my uncle and i told her she cant do that she took the signs down but still is selling at my house because she said that she pays rent. Its 2 Bedroom home not apartment and they only pay $500 where else can they get a better deal so for her to say that is ridiciculous. my toilet recently began to leak i called a plumber who said that he found a lot of feminine products down there that could only belong to her seeing as since she is the only female living there. she denied it. they apparently pay the rent every month but when it comes to the utltilties that i pay they are either late or if they pay me on time they pay me on the day of the due date at night. By that time i already paid them with my own money. most of these bills are under my name so i like to make sure i pay them on before the due date. they are not clean and they are driving me crazy. My uncle told them they had 30 days to move out when he confronted them about them selling of their pills it was a verbal notice. she said she needed more time and its been more than 30 days and she is still there with no sign of looking to move out. I Decided to get a 30 day notice have my uncle sign it and give it to them asap. He will gladly sign it cause he does not care for them much. My question is whether i am in the right to kick them out whenever i or my uncle wants even though they pay the rent on time. Not the bills but the rent. I ume my uncle can cause its his house and they never signed any contract with him. I cant stand living with them no more they are stressing me out like crazy.. Please help!!!!!!

Men's birth control, should it be free?

That doesn't sound safe at all, what does it neutralize the sperm? Or keep you from having an ? or what?!

Could what happened in Egypt happen here?

I think that conditions are ripe for uprisings across America to happen. The same conditions that exist in Cairo, exist in cities like New York, Los Angeles, Detroit, and Chicago, like poverty, unemployment, and a ruling cl who utilize an abusive power

Never kissed a boy?!?

Hey so im doing the 30 letter challange on facebook and im at day 23-letter to the last person you kissed! My only problem is that i have never kissed a boy! im 13 btw and i don't want to get made fun of because i have never kissed a boy! every single girl in my grade has and im for sure! can you PLEASE wrte me a letter about for this so i can put it on facebook? if you can that wll make my day! Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOO muchhhh :) <3 ily

I split scolding water on my legs ...?

I ran it under very cold water for like 2 mins and couldn't stand it no more now it's burning and really hurting, Will I scar what should I do?

Why is it racist to tellt he truth: Blacks destroyed Detroit.?

Detroit was ruined after the 67 race riots. Some say the jobs ran out because of Japenese car competiton. But more people work in the city now than ever before--they just have to commute because Detroit is the home of many dangerous blacks. Why do liberals want us to ignore this. Do they want other cities to make the same mistakes we did? Do they want other young boys mugged like I was? Do they want more girls d?

Car rentals that deliver/drop-off the car for you?

I am planning on traveling to Detroit by flight next weekend. I will in all probability need to rent a car. Are there any rental places that would drop off and pick the car up from my hotel?

Saturday, June 18, 2011

BBC 4th Gen Chevrolet Camaro?

I'm looking at the 8100 series vortec motor (8.1l 496cid) as a conversion to my fourth gen. I need to know what manual transmissions will work on the motor, and I need to know what computer I could run, like a z28 PCM, or a stand alone system. Thanks for all of your help guys.

Why is Detroit so violent if liberals are supposed to be peaceful?

Wherever there is liberals there is always violence. Ohio, Maryland, Illinois, Michigan, New York, California, etc. The murder rates and violence rates in liberal areas always hit the most dangerous places to live in the world lists and liberals still claim they are peaceful. What gives?

Do you agree with my aussie mates views on america?Its harsh!?

Well i could care less about a sub human's opinion but hey,you want obama?He comes with a maid and 2 small servants.

Will Romney try to take any credit for the resurgence of the U.S. auto industry when he saidLet Detroit Go?

What resurgence, the loss of $14 trillion in tax payer money? And stocks are down, as are the DISMAL sales of the Volt, which is only selling to the government (imagine that)

What should we do about our relationship?

ok so me and my best buddy jennifer have gotten really really close. like for spring break i spend a week (7 days) at her house and we started messing around but it end up turning into something more. we started doing things to each other to turn each other on on purpose (like scratching, biting, licking, etc.). i remeber one day we came from the movies and were at her house and were about to go to sleep, it was like 11 at night. so i was dosing off and she said no dont go to sleep and i was just like ehhh im tired. so im falling asleep and she said dont make me kiss you and i was basically sleeping and she kissed me twice. i thought it was a dream until i asked her about it the next day. she started blushing and said let it go and smiled. so when we talked about it, she was saying she doesnt know why she kissed me, she's trying to figure that out. so later on we end up kissing (pop kissing) but the following week we were watching a movie an she likes to me (get in top of me and turn me on on purpose) and we were looking at each other and she said i have the urge to makeout with you and we end up making out. so last week and this week monday we've been kissing and making out and when she would say ily and i would say no you dont she would kiss me and say ya i do c:. so my friend natasha has been talking to jennifer and jennifer is scared to ask me out because she doesnt wanna lose me or she doesnt want something to happen our relationship crumbles. but even though we are both confused about our relationship we still kiss and makeout and stuff so idk what i should do. she wants to be with me and i wanna be with her but shes scared of what could happen in the future, Help me please c: thanks

I'm pissed off with my parents?

Well I'm 15 and every holiday my parents go to nice places like Spain and Italy and instead of me going with them they send me to visit my brother who lives in America and I can't stand his annoying American wife. Because she doesn't let me smoke and that's a problem for me because I have been smoking since I was 9 and my brothers wife doesn't even let me have a beer with my brother which I think is wrong because me and my brother like to have man to man discussions and we use to drink all the time before he moved to Tampa,Florida. Plus on the last two times I went there my brothers wife checks my suitcase and she takes away all my alcohol and tobacco which really annoys me by the way. Also there's nothing to do in Tampa,Florida because my brothers wife won't allow me out of the house on my own because she thinks it's to dangerous in Tampa,Florida. The only thing that I can really do there is watch American TV or swim in their swimming pool which gets boring after a while. Plus my brothers wife also makes me go food shopping with her and buys me all these crap American clothes and makes me wear them. What should I do? My parents already booked my flight and they have my tickets!

Is it racist to point out that all small or major US cities that have alot of Africans are...?

No, it is simply the truth. All the areas that are highly populated with black people have more violence, crime and filth. If anyone thinks this is racist check the facts.

Help is this normal D;?

ok so when im around people i dont like swearing i cant really stand swearing but i tend to gag everytime i hear any swearing of any sorta even when i read swearing i gag :( is it normal for this to happen to someone like me

Should I get an LA Kings Jersey, Sacremento Kings Jersey, Detroit Redwings Jersey, or Baltimore Ravens Jersey?

I have been saving for a while and i have 200 dollars and i wanna get a new jersey just need an opinion on which of these looks coolest

How can I help my brother?

I was in a relationship in which the same thing happened to me that happened to your brother. It really sucks and sometimes the best thing you can do is just tell him that you're there for him if he needs to talk. Don't force him into talking because a lot of times that will just push him away. If you don't have time to speak with him face to face leave a note, just let him know that in your eyes he's still awesome and that time heals all wounds. I wish the best of luck to you and your brother. He deserves better. (Hugs help sometimes too).

Is the reality tv show 'Hardcore Pawn' racist?

There is a show on True tv called 'Hardcore Pawn' about a pawnshop in Detroit. I think the show is racist, as it depicts black people as rude, hostile, ignorant and inarticulate. How is it that a show that clearly has an agenda against black people is not taken off the air?

Pain in my pelvic area, lower abdomen?

I am a 20 year old female and have been experiencing pain in my pelvic area (mostly on the left side) and lower abdomen. Yes, I am ually active. The pain really kicks in with sudden movement or when i cough or sneeze, but other than that I normally don't feel it much unless its sudden and doesn't last long. Things like standing up really fast make it hurt. Its not an intense pain, but is uncomfortable. Kinda feels like someone is pushing on me. Any idea what this could be? I am not on any medication and have no history of any stomach problems.

Afraid to show my talent?

I'm a softball player and I'm a catcher, and I'm pretty damn good at it. But the thing is I'm joining this summer softball league and won't be able to catch. So I'm put either in infield or outfield. I know I can do it...but I'm not sure why but I'm so afraid to show what i can really do. Every time i go to make a play I mess up because i'm so nervous! It also doesn't help that I'm incredibly shy...and so at our first practice i stood in the outfield like a wall flower not talking to anybody and i do not thin they like me at all...I can play i really love softball...but I just don't know how to push down that fear of messing up, or no one liking me or whatever to just relax and play. Please help me! I don't want to waste everything I've got because I'm just too shy and nervous...